Tragedy in Norway

I, in common with most humane individuals was horrified by the events which unfolded in Norway and sickened by the cost in human lives. It is impossible to guard against such extreme behaviours but this seemed so barbaric if some of the reports I've seen or heard are to be believed the perpetrator went back re-shooting the victims to ensure they were dead. Everyone will have a theory as to why this happened and doubtless there will be much resultant brow beating as people ponder if the 'clues were there' and 'what happened to precipitate this action' and 'could it have been prevented?' The simple answer is probably "no" because none of us can see directly into another person's mind and know what truths are lurking there, no matter how well we think we know them. We are all individuals and are fallible. We all make mistakes from time to time, bad decisions and have to live with failure. On the flip side we all make things go right, do something useful and helpful sometimes without even realising it and make positive steps forward too. It is the essence of being who we each are. I doubt there is a person who has never or will never do something completely out of character at some point since the synapses just do not fire correctly all of the time. Check out any computer....they all need a reboot from time to time and people do too. Fortunately such extreme behaviour is rare.

It is not only the victims, but also their families and friends who deserve our help and sympathy. How can they ever begin to understand why this had to happen to them when they were just having fun or going about their daily lives. We cannot bring back those who have been lost, we cannot refill the gaping holes their loss leaves behind, but we can express our heartfelt sympathy to those who need it and show them that in this crazy world genuine, humane, kind and understanding people still exist and still empathise and care.

I have been lucky enough to visit Norway more than once. It is a beautiful country and its people are justifiably proud, resilient, helpful, hard working and honest. If any nation can pull together and rise above this tragedy it will be Norway. However, in a way because of this, the tragedy of this weekend seems all the more misplaced and unfitting.

To all those who have been effected, you are in my thoughts.